Never judge a Japanese drama by its English title
I have a confession: I'm incredibly picky when it comes to Japanese dramas.
Every now and then I try a new one because everyone is talking about it, only to lose interest a few episodes in. One reason is that I often struggle with the acting style. Compared to many Western dramas, Japanese dramas can sometimes feel a bit overacted to me, with exaggerated expressions and larger-than-life characters. I know that's part of the charm for many viewers, but it isn't usually my thing.
So when my husband introduced me to Maison Prison a few days ago, I wasn't expecting much.
Fast forward to this week, and we've been binge-watching it every evening.
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Beating the heat in Japan, literally
Whenever people talk about summer in Japan, the first thing they mention is usually the heat. And fair enough. Japanese summers are not subtle. The air feels thick, shirts stick to your back within seconds, and even the cicadas seem to be screaming about the temperature.
But what I always loved was how communities seemed to have developed hundreds of little ways to make summer not just bearable, but enjoyable.
When I lived in Yamanouchi, a neighborhood in Kita-Kamakura tucked between temples, forests, and narrow winding roads, one of my favorite signs that summer had truly arrived was hearing drums in the distance. Eventually, a tiny truck would emerge from somewhere in the greenery, carrying musicians and festival lanterns, somehow navigating roads that looked barely wide enough for the truck itself.
To this day, I have no idea how they managed some of those corners.
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Tokyo landmarks: The “Giant Golden Poop” in Asakusa
I love that this is one of those classic Japan moments where something is supposed to be very profound and artistic, but an entire nation has quietly agreed on a completely different interpretation.
Walking through Asakusa, it is impossible to miss the giant golden object perched on top of the black building across the Sumida River. Officially, it is called the "Flamme d'Or" or Golden Flame, and it was designed by French designer Philippe Starck as part of the Asahi Beer headquarters complex. The flame is meant to represent the burning heart of Asahi's brewing spirit.
Which is a lovely idea.
Unfortunately, to many people, including me, it looks much less like a blazing flame and much more like something a very large golden dog may have left behind.
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Tokyo landmarks: The Dark Tower of Otemachi
For years I walked past this building and never once understood it.
It sits there in Otemachi surrounded by glass towers trying very hard to look modern, and then there’s this thing. Solid, ribbed concrete, barely any windows, just kind of looming like it knows something the rest of us don’t. I always thought it looked completely out of place, like it had been dropped in from a different version of Tokyo.
In my head I called it the Dark Tower. It felt like the kind of place where something important was happening, but no one was supposed to ask questions. Not a normal office, not a hotel, definitely not somewhere you casually walk into.
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250 years of US history, seen from Japan
The United States turns 250 this year, which sounds both very old and somehow still quite young at the same time.
What I always find interesting, living in Japan, is how that timeline overlaps in slightly unexpected ways.
When the US was founded in 1776, Japan was deep in the Edo period. Closed off, stable, and not particularly interested in what was happening across the ocean. For a while, the two countries mostly existed side by side.
And then Commodore Perry showed up in 1853.
Black ships, a very direct request to open up, and suddenly things moved quickly. What followed was not just the opening of Japan, but the beginning of a relationship that has evolved into something that now feels completely normal.
That is the part that still surprises me.
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Tokyo landmarks: The Ginza 1-chome Koban
Every time I see a koban like this, I do a double take. A koban is basically a small neighborhood police box, usually simple, practical, and easy to spot when you need help. You’ll find them all over Japan, and they’re the place you go for directions, lost items, or just general “I’m a bit stuck” moments.
And then there are koban like this one in Ginza 1‑chome. Brick base, round window, and that curved, almost cone-shaped top that looks more like it belongs in a design museum than on a street corner. It’s been a bit of a local landmark for years, with its current look dating back to the Showa era when there was a push to give even small public buildings a bit more architectural personality. It has been updated over time, but it has kept that distinctive shape that makes people notice it.
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Off the beaten path: Atami in Shizuoka
There is a very specific kind of luxury in Japan that starts with almost no planning at all.
You just get on a train.
Atami was always that place for me. Close enough to Tokyo that it barely feels like a trip, but just far enough for something to shift. In under an hour, the city drops away, the air turns softer with the sea nearby, and a weekend suddenly feels within reach.
I used to go there more often than I had any real reason to. Not for sightseeing, not for a checklist, but for onsen.
There is something about hot spring water that resets you faster than anything else. You arrive carrying a bit of Tokyo with you, and within minutes, that background noise fades.
What I always liked about Atami is how easily that starts. Even at the station.
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The day Ueno Park taught me not to shake hands
Ueno Park was full of surprises, but some of them came at head height.
If you spent enough weekends there, you eventually encountered them. Street performers sitting very still, dressed in traditional-looking clothing, wearing impossibly tall, exaggerated towering headpieces that made you stop and stare. They looked calm. Respectable. Almost ceremonial.
This was a trap.
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