An unexpected read about compassion and mindfulness and being a good human being: Sweet Bean Paste (An) by Durian Sukegawa

I just finished reading Sweet Bean Paste, and I have to admit it made me cry—not in a sad way, but in a profoundly beautiful way. The best books have that power, and this one certainly does.

I don’t want to give away too much, but the story is about Sentaro, a lonely and troubled man with a checkered past who runs a small dorayaki (Japanese pancake) shop.

His life changes when he meets Tokue, an elderly woman with a mysterious past who offers to help him make sweet bean paste, a key ingredient in his pancakes.

As he reluctantly agrees to hire her, they embark on a healing journey together.

The relationship that develops between them serves as a reminder of how compassion can heal wounds and foster understanding, even in the most unlikely circumstances.

Throughout, Tokue’s meticulous process of preparing the paste reflects a meditative practice and a deep respect for even the humblest of ingredients.

As Sentaro learns from Tokue, he begins to find joy in the small details of life, shifting his perspective from one of despair to one of gratitude.

Reading about Tokue’s life was particularly inspiring, as some aspects of her background are based on true events. I encourage you not to look up her story before reading the book; the surprises and twists are part of the experience that makes it so rewarding.

Ultimately, I cried because the story was both sad and beautiful. It resonated deeply with me, highlighting the human tendency to exclude those who look different, even though they have so much to teach us. I feel grateful to be healthy and in a place where I can live my best life.

What wonderful book have you read lately?