Three Bonenkai in one week: Why these parties still matter
Ever tried to attend three Bonenkai in five days? I just did, and it reminded me why these year-end gatherings remain such an important part of Japanese business culture, even as traditions evolve.
December in Japan, and for Japan-related communities worldwide, means Bonenkai, the traditional “forget-the-year” party. These gatherings are more than just social events; they’re a way to close the year with gratitude, camaraderie, and a fresh start. I’m also looking forward to the Japan Consulting Office Bonenkai this week, held over Zoom, with our favorite drinks in hand because our team is spread all over the world.
Bonenkai apparently date back to the 15th century as a way to cast off the hardships of the year and welcome the new one with optimism.
Traditionally, these parties were almost mandatory for employees, often involving heavy drinking and late nights. But times are changing: attendance is increasingly voluntary, and it’s perfectly acceptable to skip alcohol or choose a soft drink. For those who do enjoy drinking alcohol, remember to pace yourself and hydrate! Water between rounds is your best friend.
This past week, I attended three Bonenkai celebrations, each unique and memorable.
The Japan Society event was a grand finale marking their 120-year history, what an honor to celebrate such a milestone!
At the US-Japan Council Bonenkai, I was thrilled to meet Audrey Yamamoto, the President, and I’m looking forward to officially joining as a member soon.
The JETAANC gathering was cozy and fun, featuring a delicious bento and craft beer from East Brothers Brewery, founded by a former JET participant. Community spirit at its best!
Bonenkai isn’t just about food and drinks, it’s about relationship building, a cornerstone of Japanese business culture. These informal settings foster trust, strengthen networks, and create opportunities that formal meetings often can’t.
As we wrap up the year, let’s embrace the spirit of Bonenkai: connection, reflection, and renewal, whether with sake, tea, or sparkling water. And remember, January brings Shinnenkai, the “New Year’s gathering,” which continues the same spirit of bonding and optimism! Only this time, it’s all about looking forward instead of looking back.
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