Sōshiki (葬式) and Butsudan (仏壇): Remembering the departed in Japan
One of my favorite aunties passed away last week, and as I'm far away and not able to go to the funeral service I started thinking on how to best honor her passing. Then I remembered a funeral service I attended in Japan, and I wanted to share the thoughful way these things are done over there.
Hinamatsuri (雛祭り): Celebrating Girl's Day in Japan
A few weeks ago I shared a story about treasuring a Hinamatsuri set I received from a dear friend, as this day is celebrated on March 3rd (today!) I wanted to share some more details about the festival itself.
Aisai (愛妻~): Cultivating love through thoughtful acts
You may have heard of Aisaibento (愛妻弁当 - loving wife bento), the salaryman lunchbox carefully prepared by his wife. This culinary tradition embodies the love, care, and effort that a wife puts into preparing a bento (弁当) for her husband. Nowadays of course there will be husbands preparing these for their wives too!
香 (kō): The Japanese art of incense
The practice of incense in Japan, known as kō (香), is an ancient tradition that intertwines art, spirituality, and mindfulness. This practice goes beyond mere fragrance; it is a meditative ritual that promotes tranquility and self-reflection.
物には魂が宿る (Mono ni wa tamashii ga yadoru - things have souls)
The attached picture shows a 55-year old Hinamatsuri set (set out to celebrate Girls' Day, coming up on March 3rd - come back in a few weeks for more details about that festival) I received from a dear friend. This set went from Japan to Belgium and finally made it to the US just a few weeks ago.
Setsubun: Japanese seasons and mindfulness
Setsubun (節分), celebrated on February 2nd in 2025 (just yesterday!), marks the transition from winter to spring in Japan. I love the connection to the seasons which invites us all to cultivate a deeper awareness of our surroundings and inner selves.
Kakeibo: financial awareness leads to less stress about money
Money causes stress, whether there’s a lack or an abundance of it! I definitely feel that way, so I'm happy I learned about Kakeibo (家計簿) which I feel offers a refreshing approach to budgeting. For me, cultivating a more conscious relationship with my finances feels like a necessary component to enhance my overall well-being so I wanted to share it with you.
Journaling traditions in Japan
If you're like me and you have a mind you can't turn off easily, finding moments of peace and tranquility is very important to avoid burnout. One practice that has gained popularity in recent years is journaling, a simple yet powerful tool for self-reflection and mindfulness.

